Submitted by admin on Wed, 2015-03-25 16:27
Q: My ten years of married life is in trouble. The reasons are very common; different views and opinions, no understanding and many more due to which I am losing interest in every thing. First I used to pray and I used to show interest in all things. Now I have no interest in anything not in life at all. Small things make me to go in depression. I can't share my feelings to any one. My husband is not a good friend and we don't have physical relationship since many years but we stay together. When asked about this he doesn't feel any feminine qualities in me but he says he loves me very much. He always expresses negative opinions about me which makes me more depressed about my life and demotivates me. I try to be happy and good but small things make me irritable and hyper. Sometimes I badly need physical love from my husband but can not approach him because we don't have that comfort level and when I see him busy in work I don't want to disturb him. I need only a friend but whenever I try to explain my view of point he will tell such things that makes me guilty and feel like a criminal but he never thinks I became like this because of his behaviour. I always pray to Allah to protect me from choosing the wrong path. I can't share my feelings to anyone. I want to be happy but my heart is dead. I have two sons day by day I'm becoming mentally sick. Whenever I see other couples, I almost cry. I do not get that basic love and understating. I never demand anything from him he gets me everything I want but never understands what I want to say. He looks at my opinion in a totally opposite way. Please suggest me what to do or any dua that makes my life peaceful.
Submitted by admin on Wed, 2015-03-25 15:58
Q: A friend of mine recently converted to Islam Alhumdulillah. As we live in a non-Islamic country, he needed to sign a form stating that he has knowingly and willingly converted to Islam and has taken the Shahada. This form needs to be signed in front of a policeman or notary by the Imam of his local masjid and also a witness from his family to acknowledge that they know of and understand his decision to convert to Islam. This form is mainly so that should he die, he is buried in the proper Islamic manner and his family who are non-Muslims cannot bury him otherwise. Obviously all other terms and conditions of being a convert to Islam with family still non-Muslim apply. However his parents have refused to accept his Islam and therefore will not willingly witness and sign the form. My question is, can another family member (e.g. his uncle) stand as witness to this signing and will it be binding? Is there anything else he needs to do with regards to this and his conversion to Islam?
Submitted by admin on Wed, 2015-03-25 15:53
Q: A musaafir became a muqeem in Durban because he intended to stay for 30 days. However, after 20 days, he travels to Port Shepstone, for one day only, returning the same day to Durban. Will this person read qasar for the remaining 10 days or the full salaah?
Submitted by admin on Wed, 2015-03-25 15:51
Q: A few days ago I explained to my family that impurities transfer, but it seems that either they don't understand or they are not taking the matter seriously. I saw my mum touching my nephew's nappy. She didn't care whether her hands were soiled or not. She washes my clothes and irons them as well. Can I perform Salaah. I told my family that urine is impure and they all say yes that it's impure but I think that don't understand that impurities transfer. What should I do. Yesterday I wanted to perform Salaah then I left it because I thought I became impure. If they continue to became lax about impurities, what should I do?
Submitted by admin on Wed, 2015-03-25 15:46
Q: Is having a collar on one's kurtha a sunnat?
Submitted by admin on Wed, 2015-03-25 15:45
Q: I am a mazoor suffering from urine incontinence. I have 3 questions:
1. After making istinjaa and before making wudhu I always drip some urine in between, can I still make wudhu?
2. If a mazoor intentionally urinates one or two drop of urine, is his wudhu still valid?
3. Is reciting Qur'an forgiven for a mazoor?
Submitted by admin on Wed, 2015-03-25 15:42
Q: I feel stressed and depressed due doubts and waswasas. Please me help me in this situation. How can I get rid out of this? Its affects my physical and mental health. Please give me any duaa to recite.
Submitted by admin on Wed, 2015-03-25 15:40
Q: Is it permissible for me to sew a dress with short sleeves for a female customer, even though it is possible that she will wear it in front of non mahrams?
Submitted by admin on Wed, 2015-03-25 15:38
Q: My in-laws buy groceries and other household items in bulk every month. They say that there is more baraqah in buying in bulk. Is that not going against the Sunnah? Shouldn't we live for the day and not plan ahead?
Submitted by admin on Wed, 2015-03-25 15:33
Q: I have a non Muslim female friend. I want her to come to Islam and become a Muslim. For this I always make dua for her and show my best character (akhlaaq) to her. But when I talk about religion she tells me she doesn't believe in any religion but she believes in Almighty God that He is One. She is engaged in bad habits such as: cigarettes, wine, boy friend relationships, etc. When I told her to leave these things she got irritated and told me don't interfere in my life. I have my own life. What I want I will do. I don't care whether it is good or bad. Please tell me in this situation what should I do?
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